Tuesday, March 27, 2018

The story of two shoes, three socks

This is my first canyoning experience.

Short version first:

I did not know what canyoning is. I thought it was kayaking, we would row boats. However, when I was there, I saw no boat. I was told to jump off cliffs, jump into the waterfall, climb on the rock. At the end of the trip, I was gifted many parts of bruises, scratches and scars. What's more, I 'donated' two shoes, three socks to the Mother Nature. This is how the title came from.


Long version:


You have already known how this passage came about. I gotta say I am very grateful that I am alive to share with you my experience.

I really love adventures. Or probably, I should put it this way, I love seeing people taking nice adventurous videos and photos. Despite my parents rejected this idea uncountable times (I doubt they know what adventures are), I believe that one day I would take up adventures too, and here I did.

To define adventure, it is a bold, usually risky undertaking, hazardous action of uncertain outcome.

However, life is always an adventure, isn't it? Most of the time, if you follow the rule, you will be safe, but there's certain level of risk because of the unpredictable nature.

The Dalat Canyoning consists of:
Practice how to use the equipments, dry abseil with the rappel of 15m high.
1. Go to the first waterfall to do the abseiling. Swim to opposite land.
2. Do a spectacular Tyrolean Traverse, also known as zip-line.
3. Waterfall Slider.
4. Water Taxi.
Picnic lunch (Handmade Bahn mi!)
5. Real Canyoning at the great 25m waterfall, free fall at the last few meters.
6. Cliff Jump (7m/9m/11m)
7. The Washing Machine.
Trekking uphill to the van, back to the collection point.

Technically, there are 7 parts that will be in touch with water.

1&2 are not so scary to me. With my rock-climbing experience, I am confident that I could handle it. The difference between rock-climbing & canyoning is the former is going up, the latter is coming down and have to deal with the water current.

However, maybe the most terrible comes when it is least expected.

The slider is fun but it gains velocity & momentum when you reach the end of the slide. I dumped deeply into the water. One of my shoes was washed away. My specs that were secured with the ropes almost dropped into the water. I could not catch my breath as I did not expect the time underwater would be so long. I remember I struggled, trying to catch my specs and float out the water. (I would still float out of the water surface with the life vest.) My heart was racing so fast, I could not forget how I was 'drowned' and my hope rose when I saw the sunlight in the water.

This is not the best thing yet. When I floated at the water surface, I was caught in the swirl. No matter how I kicked my legs, I could not reach the rock side. At that point of time, I was really hopeless. I was so afraid that I would really be drowned because I started to lose strength in my both hands. I saw a member standing beside me. I asked him for help but seems like he could not hear what I was mumbling, lolll. Finally, I made it through. I managed to catch a rock and stand out of the water.

I did not exaggerate but that's my true experience. That's the time that I realized my swimming skills were not so well equipped as I thought I were. And I realized how strong the water current can be. What the risks really are behind all those great photos & videos.

There was a Vietnamese girl who did not know how to swim at all. She came with two guy friends, who seemed to be very muscular. She struggled like me. I saw the two guys laughing at her on the side. My another girl friend who was in front of her helped her out.

I knew it might be fun seeing your friends struggle, but I felt so sad for the girl who made friends with such guys...Don't call me a pessimist, but I would really feel the darkness gulping me if my accompany did not take care of each other in this kind of risky activities. But on the other hand, she is also quite daring to do canyoning without knowing the water, isn't it?


Because I lost my first shoe, I had to trek one-side-barefootly to the next destination. The stones along the way were so sharp...my foot hurt. But I told myself, I should withstand the pain. If not, who else is going to carry you? Anyway, we had four tour guides. The leading guide was wearing a pair of slippers. My mindset was...if he could do that, it meant that it could be put up with. (alamak, laugh cry and thumbs up for my persistence)

The water taxi was not that challenging. You simply floated along with the current in the stream. It was lunchtime after that! We chilled above the cliffs by making our own sandwiches.

As I lost my shoe and did not wear socks, the next abseiling required us to step against the rock with socks (this is the best condition). I did not have any socks...my team mates offered me 3 socks (a guy gave me his pair of socks, the girl who helped the vietnamese girl just now gave me one of her socks too. So I wore two socks at a side, the other at the other side.

The best part of this waterfall is that the sound of the water was so loud that you could not hear the instructions. You could only rely on your confidence and another instructor at the ground. But the water would splash on your face so hardly, that you could hardly see the instructor at the ground. For my part, I did not know why the rope kept trapping my legs. Hence, I kept slipped down & hit the rock. Tried many times to stand up. Finally, it was time to let go of the rope! The water current washed away all my socks -- this time. Indeed, I found it funny, and I laughed out loud. My team mates found it funny too and we made jokes of it throughout the journey. However, only I knew that I was so scared and my whole body was shaking, although I did not know whether it was caused by the cold weather or the real shock I got.

After that part, a tour guide passed me his shoe (because his other side was broken) so I had an unmatched pair of shoes. At least I would not hurt so much on my feet. However, the story did not end here.

At the last stretch of the activity, also known as the washing machine, as the waterfall would splash on you and you would swirl into the water.

This part was terrible to me too. When I was dumped into the water, I lost another side of my original shoe. The current was so strong that I was worried that my helmet would drop and I did not know which directions my head & legs were. I was scared that I would hit the rock. I was terrified that my specs almost flashed away by the current. I was stoned that I could not control my body. I struggled to catch my breath. When I finally floated out of the water surface...I could not stand up. Again, my legs could not reach the rock...and I could not stop myself from being flashed away by the current. The ground tour guide shouted at me "HEY! HEY!" He urged me to stand up, but I just could not. Then he rushed towards me. He asked me "are you ok?" I realized that I was at the edge of the pool already...which meant if I did not stop myself from being flushed away by the current, I would be swept into the speedy stream.

What's more shocking to me is...my team mates seemed to have no reaction at all. They stood aside. I could not blame them because they did not know what's going on. Maybe they perceived me as a strong one. Only then I realized how vulnerable I could be. Of course, when I got back to the rockside, I still made joke of myself, by losing the shoes, again. This time, there's no extra shoe for me to wear. So the girl friend gave me her only sock to protect my feet from being hurt by the sharp stones.

The other girl behind me had a more crazy experience. Because when she abseiled down the cliff, her helmet was washed away, and she released her hands to grab the helmet! THEN, SHE DROPPED! She did not even have time to scream! The team on the rockside were worried. They walked towards her to help to pull her out of the water...quite different from mine. LOLLL.

Despite having the protection, the whole walking experience was a torture. I spoke the most times of "SH*T!""DAMN!" in my life!

Other than the above experience, I enjoyed the cliff jumping too. The free fall was heart pumping. But at least the pool below was calm and still. I could swim easily to the side. The only worrying part was there was stone stucking out. One has to jump far away to avoid being hit by the rock at the back...and it really took courage to jump down the cliff without a second thought.

Today, I made myself a record of losing two shoes, three socks. I learnt how beautiful yet strong the mother nature could be. However, along the way, I learnt how to adjust myself to cherish my life, to embrace other's accompaniment, and to make fun of myself out of the pain.

As the saying goes, no pain, no gain. I think I will take up more adventure! This is just the starting page of my adventure story. Alright, till next time!









Wednesday, January 3, 2018

柬埔寨金边Cambodia Baray (Phnom Penh, Baray)第三天

第三天的早上,Baray的气温刚刚好。吃了早餐,我们再次出发。

一路上,看到成片的树胶林。不像马来西亚这里,橡胶都被棕油取代了。

路途奔波,来到了内陆的一所学校。这里的学生感觉年龄差距大。但是,就如我上篇所说,内陆的学校资源稀缺,交通不方便。学校的建立,除了知识的传授,更重要的是给予他们精神上的支持,引导他们走在正道。从Esther与其他同行的人对他们这20-30年间的叙述,就可以知道这一过程很艰辛,可能比我们在马来西亚办华教还要难。

孩童们见到我们,出来列队迎接和招呼。(当然,我是沾了Esther其他人的光。)

在芭里的学校。原本全白的车,都被飞扬的尘土染色了。

善心人士协助建校

孩子们在课室里等待上课

视察屋顶。我们到不久前的某个晚上,刮了很强的风,把树连根拔起,也把一片屋瓦吹走了。这个学校的屋瓦还好,因为用泥做的,比较重。可想而知,其他用叶子当屋顶的房子,应该没有这么走运了。

缺乏知识,就像被囚禁的鸟儿,在笼子里无法逃离。即使挣扎出来了,也未必知道飞翔的方向。

牧师在与孩子们对话。当中也有一些大人。

Saraan负责授课。

柬埔寨小女孩也来上课咯。

宝宝也来参与一份。


村子里的大人小孩所穿的衣服,大多数都是由到来的慈善团体所捐赠的。他们没有华丽的修饰,但是却有人性中最纯真的一面。

与学生道别后,我们就准备回程了。路上经过一个当地市集,买了炸香蕉来吃。他们的炸香蕉与新马一带的很不一样。外脆内软——外皮还有芝麻,很香。香蕉不会绵绵的,还挺结实,而且很甜。一大袋USD3,我们拿到的时候都吓了一大跳……结果吃了两天,差不多五人分,还是吃不完。






离开Baray以前,我们去拜访Tom的家人。途经一个很大的水坝。正好是周日,很多人出游携家带子地在这里捕鱼。


Tom的家是木制的,就像马来人的高脚屋那样。但是屋内光线非常昏暗,所以如果要学习,也只能借白天的阳光和夜晚的月光来看书,或者点蜡烛。然而,Tom的内心也是有梦想的。他跟我们说 他要考医生,现在正不断地努力考进去当地的医学院。

还有一点非常奇妙的是,他们的视力好像不错,戴眼镜的人屈指可数......当然也有可能是因为他们对于眼疾没什么认识。

此外,这里的通讯,比想象中的发达。小娃儿人手一支手机,玩游戏、看电影,样样来。据知,他们的电话发展史是从没有电话,直接进阶至手提电话,而不像我们这里:没有电话 〉传呼机/毕毕机 〉家里有线电话 〉大哥大〉手机。 



昏暗的房子


Tom的姐姐就在这个小房子完婚,后面的床就是他们的新房。
即使再怎么困难,该庆祝的日子还是必须装饰一番。

悠闲自在的鸡在晒日光浴
 拜访了Tom一家人,我们就往金边出发了。城市的景色和村里的景色截然不同。金边就是一个大城市,喧喧嚷嚷的,没有村子内的平静。当然,每个人都各有所好——有些人喜欢五光十色的城市风景,有些人则偏爱田野风光。我个人喜欢城市的便利,却也喜欢乡村的宜人景色,可惜在这里,两者不可兼得。或许,有时候,喧嚷的不是外围,而是自己的内心呢?

一路上,可以看到人们挤在一辆小小的巴士上。很庆幸我们这一路不需要这么挤。

到城市了。

走了约莫30分钟才找到的夜市~谢谢Lynda和Morgan陪我走这段路哈哈 :P

这是当地的golden palace。非常美丽~
当然,城市还是有很多很有趣的小细节。比如说,我们沿途走去夜市的时候,就看到路边有很多流动小摊,卖的是各式特色小吃(比如各种蛋白质极高的昆虫、冰淇淋、炸物等等)。因为我们住的地方靠近河边,沿路有步行街,还有许多商铺,所以走路很方便。这个步行街的一个特色是,地上都铺上了草席。所以当地人买了食物,就会席地而坐,边吹着河风,边野餐,好不惬意!但是,因为我比较胆小怕事(觉得这样坐在路边危险,再加上担心肚子不舒服,所以就没有尝试这个当地人的经验,有兴趣的朋友们可以去试试)。

这里的动物也有些不同。比如说在柬埔寨,村子里,很少看到猫狗在街上乱走,其他飞禽也比较悠然自得一些。在城里,可能富人比较多,就会看到人们出来遛猫狗。流浪猫狗很少见,应该是因为城市发展被清理了吧......


由于这里属于旅游区,故沿途有许多酒吧,多提供外国游客一个入夜后消遣的地方。但是,我们都很听话,没有乱乱去喝酒。这里的厕所的收费也是比较一致,也比较干净卫生。城市里的生活大多数都比较有规划(比如:制服),节奏比较快。但是,城市的膨胀,也难免把一些比较慢的、比较没有能力的人边缘化。虽然眼前欣欣向荣,但是还是可以看到街边有些人睡在纸皮上,露宿街头。由于城镇的发展,一些“不符合条件”“不符合规范”的人,只能被赶去周围的村子。一般上,这些村子都有些血缘性,如此一来,这些被赶走的人也很难融入。真是两难。


我想,这种情况,在各大城市都是有的,只是变化程度大小、处理的手法不同。有人被迫离开,必然有人挤破头都想要来谋生。或许一个人很难改变什么,但是不断警醒自己,多思考,多动脑,多为他人着想,提升修为,应该是可以做到的吧。:)

路还是要走,明天继续向前迈进咯~

Tuesday, December 19, 2017

柬埔寨Cambodia Baray (Phnom Penh, Baray)第二天






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才来到柬埔寨的第二天,有点儿不舒服,有些发烧。不知道是水土不服,还是缺水,但是!!!还是要活力满满的,才可以好好地完成活动哦~~
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第二天~

早上起早,有Esther给我们准备的早餐~




特色面包。和法式面包很像,但是我觉得这个比较软,比较香。法式的比较硬,但是比较脆。

Khmer Life后院的鹅夫妇。
可爱的伙伴~Lynda

还有小兔子

吃完了早餐,就出发到Kampong Kong。今天加入我们的有另一位学生,Saraan。他的英语很流利,也会说一些简单的中文。今天的行程都由他安排。

首先,我们拜访的人家是一对行动不便的夫妇。他们以裁缝加工为生。女方(忘了名字了...>_<)自小有小儿麻痹症,需要以轮椅代步。由于女生每次开始工作需要从轮椅移动到裁缝桌,而且一坐就是四五个小时。我们发现她的椅子和桌子高度不是很符合,影响了她的坐姿。于是,今日任务是替她量身打造她的一套桌椅,希望下次国来的时候,可以带给她,让她坐得更加舒适。
左边的是与我们一起同行的Saraan。他给我们讲解这家人的情况。

从这里可以看到,她的坐姿倾向左边。长时间维持这个姿势,会造成脊椎侧弯。

织布厂内观。
很久以前看过这样的织布机,但是是在中国内陆,或者博物馆内。这还是第一次看到,摸到。

Tom尝试示范如何织布。



据我所知,他们一天可以完成30-50个加工。每一个约$0.50。虽然一天的收入可能不足三美元,环境也不比我们,可是他们很和气。男俊女貌,和和美美的一家人。虽然两人都行动不便,可是他们脸上还是洋溢着幸福的笑容。老公对太太的语气很尊重温柔。而且,老公对太太的关爱,是打从眼底流露出来的。我想这就是,知足常乐,happy wife,happy life吧。
很和蔼的柬埔寨夫妇。仔细看,她坐的轮椅,是木制的。这里少见。

用风扇的网当作barbaque pit!有创意 :)  

在织布厂停留了一阵子,Saraan就带我们去参观学校了。这里的学校其实很多,大多数都是由不同的团体建成的,其中绝大多数是基督/天主来这里做mission。除了新加坡,也有来自澳洲、美国等地的。不同地方来的团体,所带来的资金多寡,加上其文化背景有别,就会带来不同建筑风格的学校。

这些学校的落成给这里的学生带来一线生机。毕竟教育为重,知识可以改变他们的命运。再加上,学校有人看管,又与当地政府有所联系,学校有资源,就得以维持下去。
生长在石缝边的花草,象征着生命的坚忍不拔。



符合国际WHO的水井。这里的水打出来了可以直接喝。
大多数学校都有这个设备。

校园一角。





街拍神技术get:看地上、看天空、地上有虫、背后有恐龙!!!

这是澳洲团体建设中的学校。有砖有瓦。



澳洲校园内的花园

猜猜她在干嘛?

在树下打坐

突然飞来一粒球,瞧我身手敏捷!

参观了两所学校,Saraan就带我们去他以前的家。他给我们说了他的故事,他的父亲如何在他的背上逝世,房子如何被火神吞噬......再次回首,一切已经是物是人非。

他的屋子旁边是一片片稻田...风景特别美,自然得拍几张照。


路过花生园。采花生~
绿油油,天茫茫









甘蔗水小档





拍完了各种照片,马不停蹄,我们就前往Saraan在Kampong Cham的住所了。Kampong Cham 在柬埔寨的“红色高棉大屠杀”(The Khmer Rouge Massacre)中遭受了摧残。这个以革命为名的大屠杀进行了种族灭绝,杀死了那一代的许多知识分子。一代人的死亡,使文化断层,这一代的孩子,缺少了上一代的明灯,犹如在黑暗中摸索着出路。

Saraan说,基本上这个Kampong Cham里的每一家人都有人被大屠杀牵连。随意去问一个人,他们都可以跟你说出他们家遭受的迫害。

Saraan在这里设立的一个学校。这里的学生,有些去城市受教育,有些则完全不会识字。虽然良莠不齐,这样的学校也未必很有系统,但是他为这些孩子在放学后或者劳作后,有个相聚的地方,至少可以有机会感染到一些读书的氛围,而不会做一些不良交易、变坏。

我觉得这里的学生特别可爱。他们很尊重老师。即使他们已经会了,他们也不会傲慢,不会拒绝做功课。反之,他们愿意不断地练习。即使他们真的不会,他们会愿意倾听老师的指点,而不会放弃。我很欣赏他们的精神。




除了教室内的学习,还有体操课。上课到一半,这个小commando跑出来,哈哈!

小commando正在视察队伍。

“嗯,做得不错,继续加油!”

循循善诱的好老师在给他们介绍新加坡在哪里。

首先,让我们来学一首儿歌吧!

嗯,大家都很专心

别担心,老师教你。




大家在楼下聚会,我来摆个pose。

这个小孩抓到了美丽的捕鱼翁,准备拿去卖钱~
我们觉得很残忍,就以几美元,与他协商,让他放了它。

柬埔寨的白天,有点儿短。在学校兜兜转转了一会儿,我们就回去吃晚餐了!




这么大锅的料,我在烦恼...怎么吃完呢?

里面是香喷喷的鱼肉咖喱~
好大的椰子!



第三第四天!请见下回分晓!